Thursday, February 26, 2009

Besancon Memories

A couple of nights ago, I was going through bins in the basement trying to find a certain notebook. I stumbled upon a binder labeled Chemistry 109, opened it, and found a treasure that I'd forgotten about. The notebook was a collection of 110 e-mails, 8 postcards, numerous letters and cards, and pictures that Jeremy sent to me from Europe. When Jeremy and I had been dating a little over a year, he took advantage of our university's study abroad program and went to France for a semester. It has been over 10 years since he returned. We looked through it together the other night and enjoyed reminiscing!

Who knew that 10 years after his return, we would be married with four children and settling into our first home? I wonder what we would have thought, as a young dating couple, if someone had shown us a video of our future together? (I often think about silly things like this.)Jeremy stands outside his hotel, the place where he stayed when he first arrived in Besancon, France.
He sent many postcards to show me the places that he had seen.
This is a postcard from a trip he took to Italy; this church is in Venice. The back of the postcard says: "Aubrey, this church was beautiful. The entire interior was a mosaic. You'll have to believe me when I say that the picture doesn't do it justice. The churches here are so huge. This one is in Venice, Italy. I loved it there. The whole city is an island with not a single car! Everyone has a dock in their backyard. It was so peaceful."
I received several air mails from him. It's neat to look at the postmarks and stamps.

Jeremy sent this calendar page for my birthday. He had been to Czechosolovakia (we both have Czech roots). This page says March 12.

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

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Remember, man,
you are dust
and to dust
you shall return.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Tuesday Well Spent

We had a great day today! It started when I went to make coffee this morning, as Fat Tuesday is the last time I'll have coffee EVER until after Easter. There was no coffee in the cupboard. "Everyone in the van," I yell. I ordered two cups for good measure. Starbucks made $4.06 today. What recession? *This photo belongs to Business Week.

My friend Staci came over with four of her children today. Madeleine, Marianne, and Elizabeth made good time playing outdoors. Ruth and Noah disappeared upstairs and built an elaborate train track. When they tired of that, they pulled a new game out of the cupboard. Isaiah played outside with the older girls when he wasn't trying to hug and kiss baby Meg. We had lunch together and then our friends went home and the children went down for naps.

My sister Brianna called and asked if I had to pick Morgan up from school today. When I said that I did, she asked if she could come over and stay with the sleeping children so that I could go to school by myself. How thoughtful! When she arrived, she mentioned that our sister Valley was up for a trip to the park. Did we want to join? Absolutely! It reached a balmy 61 degrees here today!

When I returned from school with Morgan, we had a quick snack and then headed to the park. My sister Valley met us there with her sons Tre'mon and Khalil. Now the pictures shall tell the story....Isaiah loved climbing, trying to run in front of the swings, and came back toward us every so often to check on his baby cousin in the stroller. "Brie, watch this," said Noah. His aunt followed him toward the jungle gym. Morgan had so much fun on this toy. She nearly touched the ground when she rocked backward. What are these things called, anyway?
Aunt Brie pushed Morgan, Maddie, Noah, and Tre'mon on the tire swing. They sound like a pack of hyenas! After playing on the playground, we headed across the road and up the hill toward the statue. Surely this will wear the children out! The girls ran ahead, so Brianna followed them. She is followed by Noah, then Tre'mon, then Isaiah. Valley, Khalil, and I brought up the rear. Here we are nearly up the hill! Brianna is toward the top with the girls, Noah and Tre'mon are in the middle, and Isaiah did his best to make his little legs climb that hill!The children ran down through the woods toward the bottom of the hill. They stopped at a pond which was still frozen. They tried to throw things in it. I said it was time to move on and Noah said, "but Mooo-ooo-oo-ooom, I want my stick to sink first!" Sticks don't sink, Noah.Noah and Tre'mon played together at the edge of the pond. The children reluctantly left the pond and followed Valley and me up the path.
Morgan and Madeleine raced ahead. Noah wasn't far behind. We made this walk a very long walk. It was so nice to be outdoors on a 61 degree day. Noah pulled two balloons out of his pocket. He kept the yellow balloon and gave the orange balloon to Tre'mon. This slowed the boys down! I stopped to wait for Isaiah, whose little legs were becoming tired. Madeleine is standing with us. Brianna took the last several pictures. Thanks, Brie! Madeleine took this picture of her cousin having a bottle when we settled back on a picnic bench near the playground after our walk. I wish you could see more of his face; he is so beautiful.
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On the way home, amidst the giggles and happy chatter, Morgan piped up in the back. "Remember, everyone, we're still super heroes!" Madeleine replied, "And we're going home with our mom."

Monday, February 23, 2009

Happy Third Birthday!

Happy 3rd birthday, William Anderson! Anderson's presents were about as big as he is! Cousins and siblings gather around Anderson as he opens his birthday gifts. I love to see Gabriel and Morgan with such big smiles, giggling with each other in the foreground. Noah watched Anderson part of the time and sat oblivious on the stairs behind him for a few minutes working on his punching balloon. Morgan helps Anderson open his new tools. Anderson and Isaiah play with balloons on the sun porch. I'm not sure whether Clare was pretending to be a saint or a scary ghost but she was funny! Gabriel plays Blue Moon on the piano. He has his eyes closed deliberately. He must have memorized the music. Morgan plays with the new Craftsman saw.Gabriel blows up a punching balloon. Isaiah can't decide what's more exciting: presents or what's about to come out of the kitchen! Laurie dishes up the ice cream and chocolate chip cookies. Grandma feeds Isaiah birthday dessert. Jeremy poses with his mom. Delphina and Morgan (a year apart) love to play together, even at school recess! Madeleine sits while Anderson opens his gifts. She's wearing a Hello Kitty watch which she received as the prize in her Happy Meal. Boy, have the toys improved since my childhood!
Mandy and Claudia cuddle together.
Madeleine hugs Delphina in the sunporch.

Rainbow Food

My very wise sister-in-law teaches her children to eat a little something from every color of the rainbow every day.





Friday, February 20, 2009

7 Quick Takes Friday Volume 7

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1. I hear BIRDS outside! This morning I heard a Mourning Dove, a woodpecker, and at least three or four other kinds of birds. Hearing birds is something that I miss most in the winter (third in line behind the color green and the sun). It's uplifting to hear signs of spring even when it can't yet be seen.

2. The boys and I are home alone this morning; the girls are at school and Jeremy is at work. I woke with a headache and took ibuprofen and thought that steam would make me feel better, as ibuprofen doesn't normally take away my headaches by itself. So I asked Noah to get his swimming trunks on and I put Isaiah in a swim diaper. I got into my swimsuit and we took a soak in the hot tub. It was the perfect temperature outside--40 degrees--so the water felt hot and our heads and shoulders felt cool. Noah was fascinated with the steam rolling off of his body. We stayed for an hour and a half! The headache is gone. What a blessing it is that our home came with this hot tub!


3. Corelle by Corning makes the best dishes. They happen to be inexpensive. I inherited a small set from a great aunt and have gradually added enough to make more than 20 each of plates and bowls. They are white which matches anything. They are difficult to break and easy to find; even Wal-Mart carries them. Because they don't have a pattern, it is easy to add/replace pieces. They are light weight, don't stain, and clean very well. We had a heavier set when we were married which I gave away when I realized the perks of having this Winterfrost White set of dishes. You've got to trust something that a 95 year old woman keeps in her cupboard; she's learned something in her near century of life!

4. Speaking of elders, I often think of how we should spend more time listening to older people. Often, society paints them as old fashioned or behind the times. This is disappointing, as our elders have learned so much more than we have. This aunt of mine, Ede, was 95 when she died a couple of years ago. She lived through WWI, the Great Depression, WWII, and many other eras that we only study in history books. When I see our elders motionless in the halls of a nursing home in a wheelchair, I feel sad that their long life is ending this way, that their wisdom and experience is being wasted while they wait to die.

5. Ede often lamented that she had lived too long; most of her friends had died as well as two of her sisters and two of her brothers. You know what she loved the most? Getting out of her assisted living apartment and into the world. She loved to go grocery shopping, she loved Red Lobster, McDonalds, and Village Inn. She loved to just sit at my house while I made supper and she would watch the children play and read books to them. It didn't take much to make her day; she just didn't want to be alone. What good memories we have of her. The children, who were 4, 3, 2, and unborn (at 18 weeks) at the time of her death can remember her through the videos and pictures that we took. "Let's watch the Ede video, Mom!"

6. Strawberry Dessert Recipe

First layer:
1. Spread 2 cups of crushed pretzels in the bottom of a 9x13 pan
2. Drizzle with 1 stick of butter
3. Sprinkle 2 teaspoons of sugar over it
4. Bake at 350 for 10 minutes then allow it to cool.

Second Layer:
1. Mix together 8 ounces of cream cheese, 8 ounces of Cool Whip, and 1 cup of sugar
2. Spread this mixture over the cooled first layer.

Third Layer:
1. Prepare a 6 ounce box of strawberry Jello using the Quick Set method (speed set?).
2. Mix in 10 or more ounces of frozen strawberries. It works best to cut them in half.
3. Pour this layer over the second layer
4. Refrigerate for 4 or more hours.

Fourth Layer:
Slice fresh strawberries and place over the dessert.

Enjoy!

7. Inspired by reading the blogs of Australian women and a couple of British women, I want to publish a post about colloquialisms in order to see how they differ by region or by country. My only difficulty is coming up with phrases or words that actually differ, as I am so familiar with American English that I take these things for granted. If you have any ideas you'd like to submit now, please do so!

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Proud Big Sister

One of my younger sisters, Brianna, has a good eye and takes amazing pictures. She's inherited our father's photography gene! She's working on a project right now in a local contest, so I won't mention her themes right now but I may update after the project is completed and turned in so that her pictures may be better understood.

She was over yesterday working on part of her project and I asked if she would leave some of her abstract photos on the computer so that I could play with them. I adjusted the contrast and color on a couple of them so when you see these, realize that you're looking at an altered version of the photo she actually took.

I'm proud of your work, Brie!Me, Maddie, and Brianna
Peeling wall paper in an abandoned house--note the flower pattern in the center.
Closeup of an outdoor mural