Sunday, November 30, 2008

Swimming in the Dark

It's dark and our splashed water turns to ice on the deck. We are nice and toasty warm in our 103 degree water. It is about 31 degrees and a little breezy, so steam is rolling off of the surface of the water and off of the kids' bodies when they stand up. The tub quickly cools to 101 but we are warm enough to stay awhile. Who knew this could be fun when it's freezing?

AWOL Vol. 2: NE vs. CO

Our houseguests sit in shock while watching the first quarter of the Nebraska-Colorado football game. This is a huge rivalry, for those of you who do not know. Nebraska did NOT impress anyone during the first quarter. We dressed "Seth" in my Nebraska sweatshirt and there he is being a wall flower. Seth watches the game with Mom, who cannot believe what she is watching on ABC--Colorado is kicking our rear ends in this first quarter. Then, suddenly, the tide turns and everyone thinks we're gonna be #1...well...maybe we're too far from #1, but we could at least win the game. "Seth" is over by the fireplace.
In case you didn't believe it, there it is: Colorado 31, NEBRASKA 40. Eat that, Buffs.

Friday, November 28, 2008

AWOL Vol.1

These are our adventures with Seth and his recently developed talent of bilocation. Here are 5 ways to have fun with your brother even when he's 1680.39 miles away:Feed him a blueberry kolache for dessert. Let him pose with his sister and unborn nephew.
Our brother-in-law Roger was glad to let Seth sit with him and watch football.
Grandpa said that there was room on the couch for him.
Jake and Eli even played football with him!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

My Beef With Band Aid

Band Aid, the one-time rock group, that is. They released a song called Do They Know It's Christmas? In the original version, they're referring to Ethiopians, who were experiencing widespread famine at the time. Now I definitely respect what they were doing; they were trying to raise money for impoverished people in Ethiopia and I am grateful that they did.

Now that we're preparing for the Christmas season (Advent, to us Catholics), the radio stations are beginning to play Christmas music and this song is one of them. It has driven me absolutely crazy for years because I detest Hollywood Mania and the fleeting passions that drive them face first into a brick wall instead of heading on a good path somewhere. One cause is all the rage one year and they've changed their tune the next year and the old cause is forgotten.

It's my blog and I'll rant if I want to. So what bugs me about this song? While rolling my eyes, here we go, line by line:

It's Christmas time, there's no need to be afraid. At Christmas time we let in light and we banish shade. And in our world of plenty, we can spread a smile of joy. Throw your arms around the world at Christmas time.
*I agree except that when they say, "throw your arms around the world at Christmas time," it's supposed to be a feel-good lyric but it's sappy enough to make me shudder. I do like the line we let in the light and we banish shade. Christ is the light, right?
*Are we only required to love the world at Christmas time, or year-round?

But say a prayer, pray for the other ones. At Christmas time, it's hard. But when you're having fun, there's a world outside your window and it's a world of dread and fear, where the only water flowing is the bitter sting of tears. And the Christmas bells that are ringing are clanging chimes of doom...
*Chimes of doom or simply calls from the Minarets? Chimes of doom? Really?

Well, tonight thank God it's them instead of you.
*Seriously! Band Aid is telling me that I lay in bed at night and say, "Thank you, God, for letting someone suffer, as long as it's not me." That's a ridiculously pompous, vitriolic lyric.

And there won't be snow in Africa this Christmas time.
*Really? There won't be snow in Arizona, Florida, South America, or Australia either! If there were, we'd be screaming global cooling instead of global warming. There's not supposed to be snow in Africa anytime, especially at Christmas time when it's summer there. It's biased to assume that there must be snow to have Christmas or that Africa should have snow. Who wrote this lyric? It is this one line in particular that drives me crazy. Quick! Have Aspen ship their snow machines to Africa so there can be snow for Christmas during Africa's SUMMER.

The greatest gift they'll get this year is life.
Life is the greatest gift that we all get. Is Christmas only about gifts? I'm hip on sending food as a gift year-round...not just at Christmas.

Where nothing ever grows, no rain or rivers flow...
Coffee grows there. Sugar cane grows there. Many things grow there. They do get rain, mainly in the middle of the year, and yes, Charlie Brown, there ARE rivers in Ethiopia.

Do they know it's Christmas time at all?
*"Do they care that it's Christmas time at all?" might be a better line, since half of the population there is Muslim. Okay, okay, that's harsh, since the other half of the population is Christian. And yes, they do know it's Christmas. Maybe Band Aid is worried that since they don't live in North America or Britain and don't get snow at Christmas, they might forgot. That's a bit ethnocentric, though, to assume that because they don't have snow and might not get gifts, they don't know it's Christmas.

Feed the world, let them know it's Christmas time. Feed the world. Do they know it's Christmas time at all?
*I agree...feed the world even though they're intelligent enough to know that it's Christmas. Feed them even when it's not Christmas!

Here's to you; raise a glass for everyone. here's to them underneath that burning sun. Do they know it's Christmas time at all?
*We're all underneath that same burning sun. It's HOT in Ethipia. They're right. Even though it's SUMMER there, they do indeed know that it's Christmas. Sometimes when I have to go outside and it's -25 degrees on Christmas, I wish it was hot here. Let's spread the sun's love. Seriously?

Feed the world, feed the world, etc.
*I agree. Feed the world! But let's keep snow where it belongs, eh?

Monday, November 24, 2008

At the Farm

Jeremy's extended family has great holiday traditions. Both sets of his grandparents farmed but his maternal grandparents left their farm in his family, partly to his uncle who stayed on the farm and continues to work the land. Although his grandparents are gone, his uncle welcomes us out to the farm. His mom's family is very large; she is one of 13 and so Jeremy has that many aunts and uncles plus their spouses and roughly 35 first cousins. It's amazing! There are several family gatherings throughout the year in different places, but Easter, Thanksgiving, and Christmas Eve take place at the farm. Aunts, uncles, and cousins and their children all squeeze into the small farmhouse and it's great! Madeleine initially expressed dismay when she realized that we were going to the farm. Why? "Because I can't ever find you in the rooms!" That's how full it is (she always has a good time, especially when the kids head outside after the meal).

Jeremy's dad still comes out to the farm to help during harvest.On Sunday, we all came out to the farm for Thanksgiving supper. There was turkey, ham, homemade noodles, kolaches, veggies, stuffing, homemade gravy, the most delicious homemade pickles, and a table full of dessert. An aside: for you non-Czech people, I mentioned kolaches separate from dessert on purpose. Kolaches are a great side dish, you might call them a dinner roll, maybe you have one instead of a salad and then have another for your entree...do you see a pattern here? (Cheers, Dad!)


We had our meal and the kids went outside. Uncle Emil had a calf that they were very interested in. I think the cats got smart and went into hiding. There were buckets of corn spilled here and there and even ears of it on the ground around the combine that they were picking up and stripping. Only on a farm will you see a seven year old girl with a doll in one arm and an ear of dried corn in the other! This young lady is our niece Delphina. There were other little girls running around with one doll and one ear of corn, too. I'll let the pictures tell the rest of the story.Isaiah gets up close and personal with the calf. Since he had just gotten up close and personal with the calf, he thought that these deer might need some petting. I laughed hard when I realized that he thought that they were real! This is Noah in mid-throw: oh, for the joy of tossing corn in the air!


Isaiah was nervous when we first got to the farm. I think he was overwhelmed by the amount of people. They all remember him, but he doesn't yet remember them. That's the top picture--him clinging to Grandma in the kitchen. This picture is of him with his Great-aunt Chrissy. He had warmed up by the end of the day and went to her legs and hugged them to be picked up.

Yep. That's my kids in a dogpile on the living room floor.
Noah eats a cookie while watching Jeremy hold Morgan who is making a face while sitting beside Madeleine who is happily sipping on her "zoo" cup.

The Simple Woman's Daybook Volume 3

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Monday, November 24th, 2008

Outside My Window...It is sunny here in Nebraska! I love the way the morning light shines over the deck. Unfortunately, the only green outdoors is the grass, but still, it's a beautiful day, not too cold--32 degrees--so it should get up to 50 today!

I am thinking...about how fragile human life is.

I am thankful for...everything. Where do I begin? I think about my great-great grandmothers when I do laundry in a machine that is in my house and when I load the dishes into my dishwasher and change my child's diaper and simply throw it away (which I know is not environmentally friendly--no lectures, please), and when I can get antibiotics for my children and immunizations against most deadly diseases. I think what a luxury our life is compared to the pioneers who came before us. We don't want for anything and for that, I am very grateful.

Learning at school and at home...Morgan is improving her reading skills every day. I am so grateful to her teacher. Madeleine is also improving her skills in reading and writing but she can sure be a stinker when she'd rather play than work. Noah recognizes his name and we're working on letter recognition and printing. Isaiah's vocabulary is increasing by the day. Yesterday, he pointed to something on the counter and said, "a bite...please?" When he saw a picture of his grandma, he said, "Ma-mah!" These are firsts for him.

From the kitchen...two drawers are losing their fronts. My poor husband is trying to keep up with the blessings of home ownership! Later this week, from the kitchen...kolaches!

I am creating...the Blurb book, still. I've got all of the photos from January to November uploaded. Now I just need to add captions, dates, and stories. Then I'll need to keep going through the end of December and upload it! I can't wait!

I am going...to Seattle in April!

I am reading...The Hidden Power of Kindness (still), The Lamb's Supper, Discover magazine's last issue, and contemplating whether or not to subscribe to National Geographic since they've offered it to us for a mere $15.

I am hoping...that our nation turns to see the value of life beginning at conception. Maybe I listen to too much AM radio; I'm really scared that FOCA will pass. What are we telling ourselves when we say that our most innocent citizens are disposable?

I am hearing...AM radio in the background and wondering why newscasters are all confused about whether to use a/an with the word historic. Here's the rule on a/an, folks. We use A to precede words beginning with a consonant: a boat, a car, a historic event. We use AN to precede words beginning with a vowel sound: an ark, an automobile, an herb garden. How do we decide when to use a/an with an H word? Well, it's very simple. If the H is silent, as in herb, we say an herb. If the H is spoken, as in historic, we say a historic event. I think I learned this in kindergarten. In fact, I saw it on one of Morgan's kindergarten worksheets last year. Not even my five year old makes this mistake...and the news people do it on purpose, thinking they've found a loophole in a very common sense grammar rule. *sigh*

Around the house...I'm imagining the colors that I want to paint the walls. Any suggestions? Our front room is a deep red. This is perfect. I want to paint the family room, Isaiah's room, our bedroom, and the bathroom. I also want to pull up the carpet in our bedroom because it wasn't put in well; there's no pad and I can see the oak floor underneath it just waiting to be freed of its old blue covering.


One of my favorite things...(person, this time) is my husband. He is so patient and gentle. He is so good to me. He is a good provider and is an amazing father. I can't imagine my life without him. We met and began dating 12 years ago and have been married for over seven years. He has given me stability, unconditional love, and four beautiful children.

A Few Plans For The Rest Of The Week: I'll go to bible study tonight, nothing tomorrow, nothing Wednesday, Thanksgiving with Jeremy's family on Thursday, with my mom and siblings on Friday, and a clear, possibly productive weekend.

Here is picture thought I am sharing...seeing a Mercedes parked right by a barn where all of the kids are watching a calf drink milk struck me this weekend.

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Lunchtime Zzzzs

This is what happens to little boys who are teething and wake their parents up every hour during the night and then won't go down for a morning nap even though they're extremely tired. Click to watch; it's about 40 seconds in length.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Before It Gets Really Cold

It was about 45 degrees yesterday and I thought that we needed some fresh air. We packed up and went to the nature center for a hike. The kids enjoyed it; there were buffalo, elk, geese, and ducks. We picked up McDonalds--a real treat--on the way home and took good naps. I'll miss the sunshine when it disappears again tomorrow! I'll clarify for the non-Nebraskans: Bison do not freely roam our Nebraska plains. It's neat to be able to go to a reserve and see them roaming the pastures, though! By the time we walked away from the pond, Isaiah was saying, "Dut! Dut!" for duck. It is nice to hear him talking; he uses more words every day. The edges of the ponds were very thin layers of ice. It's supposed to freeze again tonight.Maddie grabbed the coat without the hood, so I zipped my hood off and put it on her like a bonnet. She was happy and so cute.
Maddie and Noah were playing with their Happy Meal boxes. I think we got more playtime with the boxes than with the actual toys that were included in the meals!

Magnetized

There is one bonus to having a sick toddler: you get to spend more time with your pre-schooler while the toddler is taking an extra nap! Noah had his Geomags out downstairs and I went down and built with him. He pointed to a picture on the box and said he wanted to make a tornado (a blanket term for anything that spins). We tried and failed BUT then I constructed this little structure to hold a spinning triangle. The triangle dangles from the middle and spins. Noah enjoys manipulating it with the other magnets. It is super cool!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Photo Collage

Some of you are stopping by and wondering, "what's up with all of the THINKING?" Well, when it's icky outside and there's not much to take pictures of, moms resort to thinking about things and then we post them on our blogs. Brace yourself, though...I'm working on yet another thinking entry for tomorrow!

Here's a photo collage from the last week or so to hold us over! Jeremy bowls in a sitting position at a friend's birthday party.
Noah works the computer in the grocery store inside of the Children's Museum.
He loved pushing this little kid-sized cart around and putting groceries into it.
Here, he plays in the water section.
Noah and Isaiah drive a State Trooper Car.
Madeleine took this picture of Sophie and Eli with Morgan.
Madeleine took this picture of me.
Morgan took this picture of Sophie and eli with Madeleine.
Eli and Madeleine cuddle.
Grandma reads Noah's new book to him. After this, she patiently put together dinosaur puzzles from a book that they gave him for his birthday.